👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Lesson 8 — Talk about family, the most popular Chinese conversation topic!
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Chapter Eight

Family & Relationships 👨‍👩‍👧
家人 — The Heart of Chinese Culture

Chinese people love talking about family — it's how they connect. Learn to describe your family and ask about others'. Warning: expect lots of questions!

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Tree 💬 18 Key Words 🧠 Culture Note ⏱ ~12 min
🌳 Family Tree

Click Each Member to Hear the Word

一个典型的中国家庭 · A Typical Chinese Family

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爷爷
yéye
Grandpa (Dad's side)
👵
奶奶
nǎinai
Grandma (Dad's side)
👵
姥姥
lǎolao
Grandma (Mom's side)
👨
爸爸
bàba
Dad
👩
妈妈
māma
Mom
🧑
哥哥
gēge
Older Brother
👧
姐姐
jiějie
Older Sister
😊
Me / I
👦
弟弟
dìdi
Younger Brother
👧
妹妹
mèimei
Younger Sister
💍
丈夫
zhàngfu
Husband
💍
妻子
qīzi
Wife
👦
儿子
érzi
Son
👧
女儿
nǚ'ér
Daughter
💬 Vocab

More Family & Relationships

📝 Sentences

Key Sentences — Click to Hear

💡 These 6 sentences will cover 90% of family conversations

🇨🇳 Culture Note — Why Chinese Ask So Many Family Questions

In Chinese culture, asking 「你结婚了吗?」 (Are you married?) or 「你有孩子吗?」 (Do you have kids?) is completely normal — it's not rude, it's how people show they care and build connection. Don't be surprised if a stranger asks within the first 5 minutes! The polite response is to answer and ask back: 「你呢?」 (And you?)

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老公 & 老婆 vs 丈夫 & 妻子: In everyday speech, almost everyone says 老公 (husband) and 老婆 (wife) — warm and casual. 丈夫 and 妻子 are formal/written Chinese. You'll mostly see those in documents or news articles, not in real conversation!
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Memory trick for siblings: 哥 (gē) and 姐 (jiě) = OLDER (bigger sound, older person). 弟 (dì) and 妹 (mèi) = YOUNGER. Add 哥哥/姐姐 for older, 弟弟/妹妹 for younger — the double is always the casual spoken form!
💬 Dialogue

Talking About Family with a New Friend

Sit back and listen to the whole chat
🎯 Practice

Shadowing Drill

🔁 Say it out loud!

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Lesson 8 / 12 — You can now talk about family in Chinese! 👨‍👩‍👧